7 June 2005

Typically NRIndian

Something a friend sent me. Although some of it is a little going overboard, most of it is very apt ...............Only substitute 'Overseas in the Western world' for 'USA'

There is more to being an Indian than eating Dal and Rice. Here are some examples.

Mother-in law:
In India - A woman capable of making your life miserable.
Outside India - A woman you never fight with, because where else you will find such a dedicated baby sitter for free?

Husband:
In India - A boring human species, who listens more to his mother than you, and orders you around to serve him, his parents and siblings.
Outside India - Still boring, but now a useful human species that comes in handy when the house needs to be vacuumed or dishes to be done.

Friend:
In India - A person whose house you can drop into any time of the day or night and you'll always be welcome.
Outside India - A person whom you have to call first to check and make sure he/she is in and not busy.

Wife:
In India - A woman who gives you your underwear and towel when you go to take a shower.
Outside India - A woman who yells at you not to leave your dirty things behind when you go to take bath.

Son:
In India - A teenager, who without asking will carry your grocery bags from the market.
Outside India - A teenager, who suddenly remembers he has lot of homework when you start mowing the lawn.

Daughter
In India - A lovely doll, who brings tears to your eyes during her marriage.
Outside India - A lovely doll, who brings you to tears long before her marriage.

Father:
In India - A person you are afraid of, and who is never to be disobeyed.
Outside India - A person to whom you pretend to obey, after all he is the one paying your college tuition.

Desi Doctor
In India - A respectable person with ok income.
Outside India- A money making machine, who has a money spending machine at home called "doctor's wife".

Bhangra:
In India - A vigorous Punjabi festival dance.
Outside India - A desi dance you do, when you don't know how to dance

Software Engineer:
In India - A high-tech guy, always speaks in American accent, always anxious to queue in the consulate visa line.
Outside India - The same hi-tech guy, who does Ganapati Puja everyday, and says 'This is my last year in the US' every year.

A Green Card holder bachelor:
In India - the guy can't speak Hindi, parents of good looking girls are dying to hook him, wears a jacket even in summer, says he has a BMW back there.
Outside India - the guy can't speak proper English, wears jacket all the time, works in a corner shop in Manhattan, dreams of owning a BMW.

6 comments:

Shammi said...

Heheh... hadnt come across this one before - does seem true though!

Vivhyd said...

Really nice one!! NRI stories are always funny.. kinda different life than people actually think.. MIL, S/W engineer were esp funny..

Castor aka Kiwilax said...

Vidhu,

The bit abt the MIL is true, because, in India, the MIL is supreme, and still may be a baby sitter. Whereas abroad, the MIL is not at all supreme, but still a baby sitter. That is the reason behind the logic, methinks!

Castor aka Kiwilax said...

Shyam and Vivhyd,

I thought it entertaining too. That's why I posted it on my blog.

krishna said...

awesome comparisons..was most impressed with those on a Software Engineer and a Green Card holder

Anonymous said...

This is so so true. How NRI's change when they go outside India. I loved everybit of it. Interesting read. Gayathri